So, the laughing thing lasted about a minute.
New family tragedy because apparently we have not had our share. It looks like my beloved BIL has cancer. Not even the "good" kind you can slice out, but an abdomen full of cancer, we are still waiting on biopsy results, so I know nothing for sure, but all signs are not good. Recall: this is the dude who had had at least a dozen surgeries in the just under 30 years I have known him, including but not limited to multiple back surgeries, quadruple by pass, artificial heart surgery, (he walked around for 18 months with a freaking pump in his chest and a battery pack hanging off his side!) heart transplant, hip replacement, and now .... Cancer. I look at this poor guy and I just can't even.... how is this even possible??? He finally had a chance to live a normal life and WHAM. How is it even real that the universe can be so unfair?
I just can not.