remaining calm
Allright, what can I say, I am a people pleaser, so I am going to give the NaBullShit "Voices" thing a test run here. No promises this month, I am not rewriting any posts if I forget about the "voices". Which, really, don't we medicate people who hear "voices"? It just seems so cruel or something to mock the psychologically challenged.
Here goes:
The phone rang at 7:40 this morning.
me: Hello?
voice: Hi, clickmom, it's Ding-Dong, the nurse from the OFH. Grandma's okay, but she did fall. Her pinky finger is bruised, it is swollen and purple, so we are going to have an x-ray taken but other than that she seems fine. We checked on her at 6:20 and she was on the floor and the private aide was not in the room.
me: (fighting back the tears of fear, frustration and grief) She's okay?
voice: (reassuringly) She is okay.
me: (trying to breath) and you are going to take a hand x-ray....
voice: And the doctor will be here later today and she will see her and check her out.
me: ..... and she's okay?
voice: She is okay.
me: I'll be there later today too.
voice: Okay, we just wanted to let you know.
me: thanks.
voice: See you later.
They didn't notice this right away, but did x-ray it along with the finger. Results tomorrow-

And the private duty night nurse, well, she was in a car accident on the highway and sent to the hospital when she was on her way to grandma. We can not get a break here. No break for you!



Man that looks terrible but I know for a fact that minor injuries in the elderly can look really bad and bruise like the dickens. I gotta tell you tho that first picture of gramma scared me.
Posted by: danelle | May 01, 2008 at 09:14 PM
My mother in law used to bruise like that just if the wind blew the wrong way. I'm sure it'll be ok...take a deep breath.
Posted by: Candy | May 02, 2008 at 02:31 PM